of the new words do you already know? Which words sound familiar to you? Can
you think of a situation where you may have heard the word used?
the short essay that uses each of the new words. Write a synonym for each word that would make the most sense in the context
of the sentence.
Qualities of a Good Friend
What is the
criterion of a good friend? True friendships can start instantly but they take time to build.
Here are a few qualities to look for when making friends as a teen -- and beyond.
1. A good friend is honest.
A good friend
may not share every detail of every second of their life, but they do try to be clear about their intentions. This means that
they try to present an accurate picture of who they are and of different situations. When something doesn't seem right, they
elucidate or let you know.
2. A good friend is fun, unique and interesting.
this is a given, and probably the reason you became friends in the first place. But there's a lot to be said for chemistry
and shared interests.
for fun, it depends how you define it: Some friends are fun because they're the life of the party, others are fun because
they discern every strange little detail about a situation. Some people are fun simply because they see life like no one else
3. A good friend is attentive and adaptable.
A good friend
is at least a fairly good listener and notices how little, day-to-day things affect you. They can't read your mind, but chances
are they can usually delineate when you're happy, sad,
excited, shocked or distraught. If they're aware that they're doing something that annoys you, they try to change their demeanor or at least
talk to you about it.
4. A good friend is supportive of you and your goals.
Sure, your friend may think you're cool, but are they on the same page as you? Do they know what you want most
out of life? A really good friend will know what makes you tick and help you become the person you want to be. They won't
try to change who you are or embroil you in situations that make you uncomfortable or put you at risk of losing something that
matters to you.
5. A good friend is a friend you can trust.
A true friend won't try to steal your girlfriend or boyfriend, your job or your personality. They won't gossip
about you constantly, demean or try to deflate your reputation. They will let you know when they're concerned and do their best to defend when you're in trouble.
6. A good friend makes it clear that they care about you.
Different people may have different ways of letting you know that they care about you. One person may give you
a big hug whereas another person might gently tease you. A big clue that someone cares is that they talk to you fairly often
and, in general, know what's going on in your life and act interested about it rather than being elusive and unavailable.
7. A good friend sticks with you in good times and bad.
is a quality almost everyone lists when asked what they look for in a friend. A loyal friend will stick with you when your
new play is a flop, when you bomb the SATs or when your parents get divorced. If you move or switch schools, they'll do their
best to stay in touch with you.
A good friend accepts you for who you are, even when you're being irritating or egregious.
friendship, being accepting goes hand in hand with being loyal. A true friend rolls with the punches as you grow and change
and know how to deal with your quirks and faults.
are also patient with you when you make mistakes -- even big ones -- and learn how to forgive you when you hurt them. In other
words, they treat you as you'd like to be treated, even when you aren't at your best.